Is it normal to be super stressed at work before the holidays?
Burnout and overwork can sometimes feel synonymous with the lead-up to Christmas and other festive holidays. But what can you (and your boss) do to reduce this?
Burnout and overwork can sometimes feel synonymous with the lead-up to Christmas and other festive holidays. But what can you (and your boss) do to reduce this?
Alison Brown
UNSW Business School
9385 8467
alison.brown@unsw.edu.au
December, arguably, should be the most wonderful time of the year. 聽聽
This is particularly true when you are lucky enough to live in Australia and the annual festivities of Christmas (as well as both the Gregorian and Orthodox New Years, Hanukkah and Lunar New Year later in January to name a few), line up with what is often stunning summer weather.聽(At least, when La Ni帽a is not visiting Down Under.)聽聽
Time off is vital for resting, recharging, gaining new inspirations and experiences, spending time with our friends and family and undertaking other activities that contribute to our overall wellness. And companies often ask employees to take annual leave over this time period. Yet when it comes to counting down to the holidays, it can sometimes feel like time is both speeding up and slowing for extra work that needs to be done to 鈥榗over鈥 the fact you are going on annual leave.听听
Dr Andrew Dhaenens, Lecturer at UNSW Business School鈥檚 School of Management and Governance, says this can sometimes be because of an聽individual鈥檚 drive聽to 鈥榝inish up鈥 for the end of the year and celebrate that achievement.听听
鈥淓nd-of-year celebrations and similar rituals are reflective of that. In short, being able to shake off the events you would like to leave behind and celebrate what you have done well as a team.听听
鈥淲hen workplaces have positive cultures, everyone understands the rhythms of the business and shares in the celebrations and challenges together,鈥 explains Dr Dhaenens.听听
But what happens when your to-do list at work is as long as your holiday shopping list, and the longer hours mean that you feel聽more burnt out than celebratory?聽聽
The Black Dog Institute defines burnout as 'a form of emotional exhaustion that can occur in response to persistent and unrelenting stress'.听听
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According to Dr Dhaenens, while a holiday away from work is a valuable time to practise self-care, the lead-up can trigger people to experience these feelings of burnout. He says this is because, in part, people聽naturally compartmentalise their聽identities between 鈥榳ork鈥 and 鈥榣ife鈥.听听
"The rush we put ourselves through before the holidays is our way of making sure that we have the space to rest, recharge, and detach,鈥 he explains.听听
鈥淧eople spend time on holidays working on their mental health with rest, relaxation, and reflection alongside their hobbies and travels, and they don鈥檛 want any leftover work to interfere with this.鈥澛犅
Dr Dhaenens points out that often the pace of work can match up with the pace of the industry you have chosen to work in. 聽聽
鈥淭he reason behind these rushes is the nature of our work,鈥 he says. 鈥淒ifferent industries will have different deadlines and expectations around dates in the calendar. For education, it is around the school year, whereas for finance it might be separate fiscal year.鈥澛犅
Dr Andrew Dhaenens says when it comes to solving the issue of feeling overworked in the lead-up to the 鈥榮illy season,鈥 it is definitely a problem to be solved by both employees and managers working together to figure out clear goals and define end-of-year deadlines.听听
鈥淚f you feel like your work rush is not sustainable, you should talk about expectations with your聽supervisors and co-workers in your developmental network," he says.听听
鈥淏usy seasons and holidays are really a product of our relationships at work and our reactions to these can be聽impacted, improved or even worsened, by conversations with others.鈥 聽聽
As he explains, holidays provide聽natural distance to rest and recharge. 聽聽
鈥淚n closing off stretches of work, everyone is forced to determine which tasks are most important. Upon reflection, it may be a product of poor planning or limited resources. The relationships聽we maintain are key to our own support and success.听听
鈥淭ake the opportunity with holidays to sit down and have these conversations, about what you can and cannot do now and into the future,鈥 he suggests.听听
And it is not just for employees. If you are a manager, Dr Dhaenens advises also taking the opportunity to debrief, discuss non-negotiables and celebrate accomplishments with your team through social activities and more, in order to mitigate employee burnout at this time.聽
With working from home and hybrid work set to continue for many people, what will be the聽impact on stress levels when we sabotage our own set boundaries? Many can relate to wanting to聽quickly check 鈥榡ust one work email,鈥 or respond to that notification, disrupting our much-needed downtime.听听
鈥淲hen it comes to tools such as electronic calendars and IM platforms like Microsoft Teams and Slack, it does suggest limited options for conveying (and signalling) where we are and how we are working (or not).听听
鈥溾楤usy鈥 does not always mean busy,聽and 鈥極ut of Office鈥 is our only real signal that we are away on holidays or annual leave,鈥 says Dr Dhaenens.听听
鈥淲hile there has been lots of discussion around flexibility in workplaces, this can reflect a real issue as people work in different places at different times.听听
鈥淐onsidering the 'everything, everywhere, all at once'聽sort of year we have all had, it can be very tempting to fall back into work cycles. Yet, there is so much evidence on benefits of taking time away on our wellbeing.鈥澛犅
But Dr Dhaenens 鈥 who has co-founded聽the Hybrid Work Leadership research and knowledge centre, which operates out of UNSW Business School 鈥 says balancing considerations around work arrangement preferences, as well as turnover, is an issue companies continue to be concerned with.听听
It鈥檚 one of the reasons he and co-founder Professor Karin Sanders, UNSW Business School are continuing to work with industry to research the area, .听听
鈥淥ur initial research is pointing to the fact that your perception of your wellbeing at work 鈥 for example, how much support you think your manager is giving you, and how much learning and connection you have there 鈥撀爄s a big factor in giving your work-life balance and liking your workplace,鈥 says Dr Dhaenens.听听
鈥淔rom the manager down, your team should know the rhythms of work, the rest and reward after the busy times needs to be there. Take the opportunity to connect and celebrate together.听听
鈥淩emember, 2023 will be a challenging, but exciting year, as managers and organisations really think about who they are, and who they want to be for employees.鈥澛犅
"Work is obviously a big portion of our lives but is not everything,鈥 says Dr Dhaenens.听听聽
鈥淚f your workplace leader takes the time to know their reports, and their challenges, and work together to make their life better inside and outside work, everyone is going to get better results.鈥澛犅
If not (and if you have the flexibility), it might be worth seeking employment elsewhere.
"While聽it is important to balance the fact that sometimes you need to 鈥榙o the tough work,鈥 not only to climb your career ladder, but to learn and grow, if the rewards are not there, it is simply not something that will be sustainable,鈥 he says. 聽聽
鈥淪ometimes you get through to the other side of the holidays, and it really is a dusting off with a 鈥楶hew! Glad it is done.鈥 Other times, it may聽be an 鈥業鈥檒l never do that again.鈥櫬犅
鈥淏ecause at the end of the day, taking time for annual leave gives us space to consider what is important. And sometimes, when you go on leave, that might mean you begin to reconsider if that environment is the right one for you to continue in.鈥澛犅
Dr Andrew Dhaenens is available to comment聽on the above topic. He can be reached at聽a.dhaenens@unsw.edu.au. 聽聽